A Marriage Declaration
My wife and I took inspiration from more places than we can count for the declaration we gave earlier this month in front of family and friends when we got married.
Colorado allows couples to self-solemnize, so we decided to something that reflected our values, instead of having a judge or priest officiate our wedding.
We collaborated on this declaration and we hope this inspires you if you’re writing vows of your own.
Together, we declare:
We are embarking on this adventure as copilots, best friends, lovers, and equals.
The strength of our union is derived from our consent as two individuals who have chosen to come together in the pursuit of a shared life.
We will help each other grow to be the best possible versions of ourselves, supporting each others’ goals, desires, wishes and dreams wholeheartedly.
We will encourage each other to take risks and be gracious with ourselves and each other when we make mistakes, because this is how we learn best.
We will demonstrate respect of each other’s opinions and seek to understand and learn.
We will protect and maintain the culture of appreciation we have built through continual expression of gratitude for all acts of kindness, physical affection and service…
